 Re: Couple is too eager
We had a difficult time with our first couple of how much IMing was too much IMing. I personally had a problem of worrying excessively if I wasn't talking enough, or if I was rambling on and on. On one hand if I didn't talk, I thought I might come off like I didn't care. Which on the contrary, I really did. Then on the other hand I felt like we would be pestering them if I IMed a lot. Eventually I just calmed down and went with the flow of it. If they didn't like it then I figured the ball was in their court to speak up about it.
Turns out they appear to be just fine and I was worrying about nothing. It's possible this couple is having these same issues. Not chatting with you might seem just as bad as chatting all the time. So I would just speak up about your feelings and see what they say. Make sure to include that you really do want to continue this relationship (or whatever you would call it) with them.
Mr. Truelove
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