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Originally posted by BiloxiCouple
Communication between you and your partner. If something does come up that you haven't discussed, politely excuse both of yourselves from the other couple so you can talk in private and make a decision. If something doesn't feel right it probably isn't. |
I believe this advice is right on. If it doesn't feel right, it isn't. While I understand decisions can be made in the heat of the moment, you need to discuss this in detail with your partner. Let them know you don't feel right about it. And why. If he is in it for you both, he'll understand. If he's in it for himself, you have problems and shouldn't be swinging.