The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Couple is too eager / wants more than I want to give

knottyboi · 12-29-2006, 11:39 AM

Thanks for the advice, everyone. I really appreciate it. LMF2, I'm glad you can empathize! Dynamar, you said what I was feeling - I don't want to feel like their personal girlfriend/concubine. I want to SWING and have lots of partners. I did like being with them and want to do it again, but I don't want to feel like I *have* to.

Thanks for your perspective, Alura. I wouldn't want to have to start all over again once I found something I had been looking for over a long period of time - but I also wouldn't want to scare them off! It hasn't gotten to that point, which is why I came here for help.

They did write me again this morning (in response to an e-mail of mine) and they did mention that they didn't want to be pushy, so hopefully this will resolve itself without bad feelings.

12-29-2006, 11:39 AM	#5 (permalink)
knottyboi Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 10 Location: Kentucky Status: Single female Swing Lifestyle Name:knottyboi	Re: Couple is too eager Thanks for the advice, everyone. I really appreciate it. LMF2, I'm glad you can empathize! Dynamar, you said what I was feeling - I don't want to feel like their personal girlfriend/concubine. I want to SWING and have lots of partners. I did like being with them and want to do it again, but I don't want to feel like I have to. Thanks for your perspective, Alura. I wouldn't want to have to start all over again once I found something I had been looking for over a long period of time - but I also wouldn't want to scare them off! It hasn't gotten to that point, which is why I came here for help. They did write me again this morning (in response to an e-mail of mine) and they did mention that they didn't want to be pushy, so hopefully this will resolve itself without bad feelings.