The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Couple is too eager / wants more than I want to give

**Alura** · 12-29-2006, 10:55 AM

I'm just a hick Okie, certainly neither single nor female, so my thoughts on this subject are probably iffy at best.

It seems to me that any time one looks for something rare, whether it be a white buffalo or a single fem who enjoys threesomes, the quarry is rarely, if ever, found. It's hard to throw a lot of fault at the feet on the successful hunter who doesn't want to go through the long process again, especially if the experience was pleasant for all.

Still, I'd think it wrong to cave into their desires while pushing your own to the side. You definitely need to be honest, telling them exactly what you've told us, Knottyboi. Perhaps you could even email them a link to this thread. They might learn something from the board, as well.

Keep in mind that communication in swinging is just as important as communication in any other realm of life.

By the way, please tell us about your screenname. Shouldn't it be Knottygurl instead of Knottyboi? Perhaps there's a pun I don't understand?

Mr. Alura

12-29-2006, 10:55 AM	#4 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,139 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Couple is too eager I'm just a hick Okie, certainly neither single nor female, so my thoughts on this subject are probably iffy at best. It seems to me that any time one looks for something rare, whether it be a white buffalo or a single fem who enjoys threesomes, the quarry is rarely, if ever, found. It's hard to throw a lot of fault at the feet on the successful hunter who doesn't want to go through the long process again, especially if the experience was pleasant for all. Still, I'd think it wrong to cave into their desires while pushing your own to the side. You definitely need to be honest, telling them exactly what you've told us, Knottyboi. Perhaps you could even email them a link to this thread. They might learn something from the board, as well. Keep in mind that communication in swinging is just as important as communication in any other realm of life. By the way, please tell us about your screenname. Shouldn't it be Knottygurl instead of Knottyboi? Perhaps there's a pun I don't understand? Mr. Alura
	__________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers Last edited by Alura; 12-29-2006 at 10:58 AM.