Welcome to the board,
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Originally Posted by LFM2 What you need to do is be blunt. Tell them they are being too pushy, and you're feeling too pressured to ever want to enjoy their company again. Maybe they will then get the message. We did have to do this with one couple who IM'd us constantly! It made me never want to contact them again. |
LFM2 is quite correct. Honesty and straightforward communication of your feelings is best in this situation.
As a single fem myself... the situation you described has happened to me frequently, almost to the point where I was totally soured on couples altogether! Having opportunities to play with couples is the main reason I entered the lifestyle to begin with... so it gets very frustrating when a couple tries to monopolize my time and make me their personal girlfriend/concubine/etc.
Just remember... the best thing about being single in the lifestyle is that theres only one of you to decide what you'll do. Effectively communicating your own desires and being direct with those who don't meet your guidelines is always the best policy.
All the best to you!