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Old 12-28-2006, 05:22 PM   #8 (permalink)
turnuptheheat
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turnuptheheat gives some great advice
Default Re: Too Beautiful to Swing

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Originally Posted by daisy girl
I went to a party and there were clearly "beautiful people" there. They walked in and the "waters parted." They seemed almost untouchable. People seemed to avoid them and I wondered what was up.

Did you ever think that maybe the avoidance from others was a disservice to them.
I noted in HS and on through life that "beautiful people" were often lonely and often dateless due to the fact that folks were afraid of them being too pretty.
My luck in talking to them, dating them, etc was resultantly very good. I found most of them to actually underestimate their appearance, even thinking themselves unattractive due to other's responses, or lack thereof, to them.
Treat people like people and at least let them give you a reason to treat them differently.
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