We see having friends as pretty difficult due to work and kids. When we do get out we try to make the most of it.
We have friends that don't swing. But it's hard to visit with them due to time constraints.
We have friends that are swingers but we don't party with. Just the way it is. We have friends that are swingers and party with regular.
You will run across swingers (new?) who may party one time and don't want the lifestyle after that for a multitude of reasons. Or more experienced swingers may have a change in their lives (financial, family etc.) that may cause them to get out of the lifestyle permanently or temporarily.
We've never had any luck using e-mail. And normally don't pursue e-mails. We are listed on a couple of sites with the stipulation if you want to meet it will be at a swingers club. If they can't meet you there then they probably aren't ready.
And I digress again.
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