 Re: Ash Needs Help Calming Down J...
Well, list me in the column of letting your man call his so called friend. Your husband has every right to defend you and your reputation. But I do say KUDOS to you both for calming down before making the phone call. Most here are right, this guy does not deserve for your husband to wait another day to find the right way to talk to him and be tactful. Honestly, if you didn't offer this guy any tact, noone would blame you a bit, and most would support it. But the fact that you are gonna try says alot about your own personal character. So yes, you should let your man call and have a man to man talk about discretion and respect. Then tell him noone believes him anyway. That may cause him to think twice about telling something next time. Then cut him out of your life. Noone needs "friends" like that. We have some vanilla friends that know about our choice of lifestyle and drunk or not they would never breathe a word.
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