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Old 12-27-2006, 12:54 AM   #11 (permalink)
WesternSwing
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Default Re: In too Deep

We have been in this type of a situation, but reversed. The husband of the other couple played with Mrs. WS on several occasions always with the expectation that I'd be able to play with his wife (there was and still is a strong mutual attraction between us). It's never happened, he just had too many issues about sharing his wife with another man (although they have had many FMF's). Finally, Mrs. WS had to simply say "hey, if Mrs. WS isn't getting any than you're not either." He understood because he knew the issues were his and the situation wasn't fair.

We are still good friends with them. They are still in the Lifestyle. Our relationship has just been clearly defined now.

Can't say it would always work out this way though. It takes good people to understand and own their own shit and thus not let it effect the rest of the friendship.

Mr. WS
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