My husband and I discussed this...trying to see what we would vote and came up with "not able to vote". We have gone for the friendship part but as of yet are still looking for that. Seems the couple that we know fairly well....get togethers are on a sexual nature (due to distance). We currently are corresponding with a couple that looks promising in both areas but only time will tell.
We did soft swap with one couple that looked good on both ends but they ended up backing out of the lifestyle and the friendship ended...we think it is due to them not being able to trust each other in a non-sexual way.
Lots of couples that we have known and corresponded with..seems to be to say they want a friendship but don't pursue it. example: getting to gether when kids are home for playing cards, or going out for dinner, etc.
I know we are pretty new at this so are hopeful to have a couple on both levels.
Rhonda and John |