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buttermilkxyz · 12-26-2006, 09:22 PM

Thank you to all for your responses, and I have a follow up...has anyone been successful in reverting to a vanilla relationship with another couple?

Personally, I don't see how that is possible. When I think back at the girlfriends I had late teens, early twenties, seeing them after we had broken up....it was essentially a free pass. It was friends with benefits (as long as I was not a jerk at time of break up!). My wife has shared similar stories from her past as well.

Apply this to the current situation...I find it very likely that jumping into bed on a whim has a high propbability, given the right circumstances or situation.

So again, has anyone had success at reverting to vanilla? And if so, what were the key issues to resolve?

12-26-2006, 09:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
buttermilkxyz Registered Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 4 Location: New Jersey Status: Couple	Re: In too Deep Thank you to all for your responses, and I have a follow up...has anyone been successful in reverting to a vanilla relationship with another couple? Personally, I don't see how that is possible. When I think back at the girlfriends I had late teens, early twenties, seeing them after we had broken up....it was essentially a free pass. It was friends with benefits (as long as I was not a jerk at time of break up!). My wife has shared similar stories from her past as well. Apply this to the current situation...I find it very likely that jumping into bed on a whim has a high propbability, given the right circumstances or situation. So again, has anyone had success at reverting to vanilla? And if so, what were the key issues to resolve?