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ohash01 · 12-26-2006, 08:04 PM

I see what you are saying Spoo...but at the time we did it, it really made sense. Oh, look - here's someone we trust. I found him attractive enough to mess around with and he's VERY nice. Plus, we had his word that he wasn't going to tell anyone.

I don't completely subscribe to the "stay away from friends" school of thought...mainly because I've done it before and it's worked out perfectly well...this was just one bad incident, I think. Bad choice on our part, but I still believe swinging with a pre-swinging friend is possible in the right circustance.

I talked to J. more tonight and apparently it was one of those "M. had too much to drink and someone mentioned J. and the verbal diarrhea just started squirting out." J. has decided he WILL call him, but he needs another evening to figure out what to say and be tactful about it.

12-26-2006, 08:04 PM	#4 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Ash Needs Help Calming Down J... I see what you are saying Spoo...but at the time we did it, it really made sense. Oh, look - here's someone we trust. I found him attractive enough to mess around with and he's VERY nice. Plus, we had his word that he wasn't going to tell anyone. I don't completely subscribe to the "stay away from friends" school of thought...mainly because I've done it before and it's worked out perfectly well...this was just one bad incident, I think. Bad choice on our part, but I still believe swinging with a pre-swinging friend is possible in the right circustance. I talked to J. more tonight and apparently it was one of those "M. had too much to drink and someone mentioned J. and the verbal diarrhea just started squirting out." J. has decided he WILL call him, but he needs another evening to figure out what to say and be tactful about it.