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OhioCouple · 02-20-2003, 04:51 AM

Penis size is of importance to me. For whatever reason after I had my hysterectomy I find a larger penis to be extremely uncomfortable. In length though not girth (I don't know how you guys figure out girth anyway).

We have some friends that we have met and enjoy being with them for non sexual activities but admittedly I am scared to death to take it to a penetration level based on his penis size. The thought of it just makes me stop dead in my tracks and I lose all interest. Now I don't really know what constitues big, but this person is probably 9 or more inches.

My comfort level is 6 inches or less and with even my own husband who is in what they call the average range, there are certain sexual postions that we cannot enjoy due to the penetration becoming too painfull for me. I wish that he could shave off an inch or so....

Larger penis' are a huge turn off to me.

I think that sometimes overly endowed men tend to be less focused on pleasure and more focused on ramming what they think women want...... Guys, your turn to speak up here.

Lori

02-20-2003, 04:51 AM	#60 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Penis size is of importance to me. For whatever reason after I had my hysterectomy I find a larger penis to be extremely uncomfortable. In length though not girth (I don't know how you guys figure out girth anyway). We have some friends that we have met and enjoy being with them for non sexual activities but admittedly I am scared to death to take it to a penetration level based on his penis size. The thought of it just makes me stop dead in my tracks and I lose all interest. Now I don't really know what constitues big, but this person is probably 9 or more inches. My comfort level is 6 inches or less and with even my own husband who is in what they call the average range, there are certain sexual postions that we cannot enjoy due to the penetration becoming too painfull for me. I wish that he could shave off an inch or so.... Larger penis' are a huge turn off to me. I think that sometimes overly endowed men tend to be less focused on pleasure and more focused on ramming what they think women want...... Guys, your turn to speak up here. Lori
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