Great poll and question!
I voted for it having it's ups and downs. We do prefer to become friends first but have found that it hasn't worked out well in a couple of relationships. Specifically one that can't let go of the fact that we don't want to take it to a sexual level and they can't understand why since "we are friends " in areas that have no sexual meaning.
I am interested to hear others opinons on this and see how the poll turns out.
Lori
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