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Mr&MrsSwing · 12-26-2006, 01:57 AM

I hate to be an alarmist, but if you want to get some action and he is somewhat against it, it is unfair and you need to stop swinging completely until you figure out a way to swing that is fair for you both. I strongly dislike men who think they should be getting two women at a time, but get all huffy and puffy and alpha male on you when you mention another man in their wife. Its egotistical and sexist. Do not be taken advantage of. On side note, my husband is not comfortable with MFM. I guess some men just aren't. I don't push that as it would only be enjoyable if he enjoyed it too. BUT he of course has no problem with the MFMF set up or the solo setup. good luck and just talk things through.

12-26-2006, 01:57 AM	#7 (permalink)
Mr&MrsSwing Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 37 Location: usa Status: couple	Re: Starting off slow I guess I hate to be an alarmist, but if you want to get some action and he is somewhat against it, it is unfair and you need to stop swinging completely until you figure out a way to swing that is fair for you both. I strongly dislike men who think they should be getting two women at a time, but get all huffy and puffy and alpha male on you when you mention another man in their wife. Its egotistical and sexist. Do not be taken advantage of. On side note, my husband is not comfortable with MFM. I guess some men just aren't. I don't push that as it would only be enjoyable if he enjoyed it too. BUT he of course has no problem with the MFMF set up or the solo setup. good luck and just talk things through.