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Originally Posted by Chicup Doesn't know how it would work? I think it sounds more like he doesn't feel comfortable with you and another man. |
Yes, that's got to be it. He knows it doesn't bother me when he is playing with another woman, because we're both enjoying it. Not sure how to get him to understand it is really the same thing, for me.
You are right about a 3some to start. It isn't fair to ask 'her' to join us, without her husband, so I'll have to come up with something else. And yes, he wouldn't like being left at home while I went out.
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Don't over think it, just do it. Things often start slow because everyone knows why they are there but are too reluctant to make the first move. Someone has to get naked first, might as well be you.
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Might as well!
He's already said it wouldn't bother him if he 'caught' me and another female making out. (go figure!) Perhaps if he and her husband would agree to "just watch" that might get him a bit more "in the mood" for things. But I won't try anything I know he will be upset about.
There's just so much more opportunity for playtime, with couples, rather than with a single female, that I would like to try it, as well.