 Re: Starting off slow I guess
Playing with her while the hubbies are out is just fine, if you could be sure that he would be okay with that. Otherwise he might just feel tricked. That could be a dangerous line you would be dancing.
You say that he "doesn't know how that would work." Does he elaborate on this? It is hard for us to give advice when we don't truly know what his issues are with the MFM or MFMF.
I do know that trickery, ultimatums, and begging aren't the best routes.
Keep it simple. Communicate, communicate, communicate. Show him this board. Let him post is issues with it if he is willing. I know I was hesitant with the MFMF at first thought, but eventually I actually became more comfortable with that setting than threesomes because I like the idea of playmates being attached. It has a certain stability that I can observe when we go out.
I would be interested on the husbands thoughts, something more than just a single line. Obviously your thoughts on the issue required more than that to fully understand.
Mr. Truelove
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