[WesternSwing]

We started out as swingers, and then we met a single male that Mrs. WS really got into. He was the exact opposite of me so he kind of filled a need in her that I don't. Basically, he is the "caveman" type and I am more the "intellectual". They also had prior military service in common and had lots of experiences that only they could understand because I don't have any military experience.

So they carried-on for several months until he really fell in love with the wife of another couple we knew and they stayed in the relationship together until they moved away for a job transfer a few months ago. That was hard on him.

The break-up between him and Mrs. WS was hard for her. It really was a break-up to her. For him is was "I am really into this other woman so I don't feel I can sleep with anyone else right now." That was last March. It has only been recently that they've made-up a bit. In fact he was over at our house with others for a holiday party last night.

We realized though that because we are okay with developing feelings for others and that it doesn't threaten our relationship any. We are still and always will be the "one" for each other. Everything else is just icing on the cake.

Will there be more? Probably. But for right now we're back to just us and swinging.

Mr. WS