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Old 02-19-2003, 08:34 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Whether or not it's ok for you to sit back and watch while he plays or vice-versa is really up to the two of you. It's something you both need to sit down and talk out to make sure there won't be any hurt feelings on either side. If you allow him to have fun while you sit and watch is going to allow the same for you or will he be jealous? That's just one of the questions to consider.

As far as how others will react, that will depend on the couple. Some won't have a problem with it, others may feel that if you don't both want to play then neither of you should.
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