Mrs. Truelove and I are 29, I feel we communicate well and possess many of the traits that we feel are necessary in swinging. We went to a meetup and got along wonderfully with everyone there despite many of them being older than us to some degree.
We've met some that are in our age bracket, I think give or take 5 years would qualify, and they were all very good people. But overall I think many people in their 20s just don't get swinging the way I think you should. So I think that makes things difficult.
Lookswise, I'd love to swing with 20ish people. But I'm really looking for people in their mid-thirties as our personalities will probably mesh a lot better. THis might come out as being a little narcissistic, but that isn't the intent.
I feel like we are one of those rarer couples that Alura speaks of, and I hope you are too, but realize, until we get older it'll be a little harder to find partners with a level of maturity that will make swinging truly fun.
Everyone finds different types of people attractive. But I have definitely seen woman ages 30-50 that I find to be very attractive. I chalk this up to most swingers having a more youthful personality, and taking care of themselves better than the average person. So don't rule the older ones out, you might be missing out!
Mr. Truelove