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Originally Posted by Alura It takes a very strong marriage to sucessfully swing, Kristielane. For most folks, it takes a long time and a marriage or two to learn to communicate well enough to swing.
Young folks who develop the necessary skills early on are rarer than those who have had twenty years of marriage to learn to understand each other. |
I agree with Alura. I don't think my communication (when I was in the mid-20's) was anything near what it is now. We needed the time to learn to love, communicate, trust, and be open. I am not saying that we were not in love, good at communication, untrusting, or not open - I am saying it took TIME to be comfortable. I hope that makes sense.
Therefore, the lifestyle has more participants that are older. That's not to say you won't find many in your age group. I think someone that suggested asking the club to promote a 'young' day had a great idea!
Good luck!
Sarah