 Re: Marriage Troubles & Swinging
Just remember that the purpose of counseling with your wife should NOT be to convince her to swing. As someone else said she will move at her own pace and compared to many guys in your situation you have a lot to be thankful for that she is willing to do what she does and is that comfortable.
It's hard when you are already comfortable with full blown swinging to go back to start with a new partner and be patient as they get comfortable themselves, but we have to be patient and let them move in their own time, putting ourselves in their shoes and thinking how we would feel if the roles were reversed (which of course is difficult because they are not).
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