The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Considering Counseling because husband wants to return to swinging and wife not open

gatorvol64 · 12-19-2006, 08:06 PM

I think you are on the right track here. You know what needs to be done and are looking to do it. You are putting your marriage first. I really like that. How to proceed? MoonLightKiss had the right advice. Call counselors and ask what they are open to. I agree that you need one who understands the lifestyle. Enjoy what your wife is willing to participate in. Not all wives will go as far as she is doing. So, you may not have everything you want (and who ever does?) but you have more than a lot of husbands.

Vol

12-19-2006, 08:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,426 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple	Re: Marriage Troubles & Swinging I think you are on the right track here. You know what needs to be done and are looking to do it. You are putting your marriage first. I really like that. How to proceed? MoonLightKiss had the right advice. Call counselors and ask what they are open to. I agree that you need one who understands the lifestyle. Enjoy what your wife is willing to participate in. Not all wives will go as far as she is doing. So, you may not have everything you want (and who ever does?) but you have more than a lot of husbands. Vol
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