 Re: Marriage Troubles & Swinging
One thing you could try is searching on the internet for any lifestyle friendly therapist anywhere and contact them asking if they have any advice on similar therapists in your area. They have a tendency to know one another.
I like the counseling idea. Sometimes it's helpful to talk through things and having someone help you do that talking can encourage you to make your communication as effective as possible. You may also gain some new insights. It's a wonderful idea.
You actually sound like you already know what you're doing, what you need to do, and what you can't do. You know that you miss swinging, you know you want to come up with a way to be happy and fulfilled, and you know you don't want to hurt your wife. It's all about talking from here on.
Sorry I don't have anything "advice-wise" to offer.
Best of luck to you both.
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