The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Considering Counseling because husband wants to return to swinging and wife not open

ohash01 · 12-19-2006, 05:31 PM

If you go the therapist route - find an alternate lifestyle "friendly" therapist. There are some therapists out there that will be wonderful and some that still live in the dark ages when it comes to the non-coventional ways of life.

As for your wife, well, someday she MAY warm up to the idea, she may not though. In my opinion, you are on a great track here! You know you miss it, acknowledge that, welcome your wife in to the point that she is comfortable with, and you leave it at that. You love her and won't cheat on her.

If you know you can't keep doing it on your own, then definately seek professional help. But you seem to be doing well.

12-19-2006, 05:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Marriage Troubles & Swinging If you go the therapist route - find an alternate lifestyle "friendly" therapist. There are some therapists out there that will be wonderful and some that still live in the dark ages when it comes to the non-coventional ways of life. As for your wife, well, someday she MAY warm up to the idea, she may not though. In my opinion, you are on a great track here! You know you miss it, acknowledge that, welcome your wife in to the point that she is comfortable with, and you leave it at that. You love her and won't cheat on her. If you know you can't keep doing it on your own, then definately seek professional help. But you seem to be doing well.