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Originally Posted by lovinher There is no right or wrong here. Why do some people think that because you are not be looking for friendship that you MUST have some type of insecurity issue or are antisocial?.....BS. We are all here for the obvious reasons...to fuck other people plain and simple. Anybody that says otherwise is kidding themselves. You may be here to make friends THEN fuck them but your still here for the sex. You don't need to swing to make friends and you don't have to be friends with the people you swing with. If we develop a friendship before, during or after playing with a couple then great, but it isn't necessary or a goal of ours. The only prerequisite we have is an attraction and a mutual respect, nothing more. What is wrong with wanting the sex only? Not a damn thing. Again, that is why we are here and that is way you are reading this right now. |
I mean no disrespect, but I am not sure anyone said that we are calling people who want just sex to be insecure. I want friendships because I am new and need that level of security. If we meet up somewhere and it is hot and I never learn you last name, so be it. I have nothing against that, as I am sure most people here wouldn't.
We were simply trying to suggests why his wife feels the need to have friends. A level of security is a valid suggestion. One I still stand by.
I think you read to much into what has been said here.
Your friend,
Prettylady
