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Thanks i am listening to what your all saying and its opening me up to new ideas and hopefully i will understand the way she is and what makes her tick(is that possible?? her being a female? (joke lady´s a joke :-)) She had me confused about doing a full swop and i am still confused but i have sorted that out,Its her decision and when she´s ready she will!! but now she has started this friendship thing and wanting to meet couples lots of times and making firends first ect,, she has basicaly blocked us meeting people in Clubs and enjoying them whilst were in the Club which does frustrate me and i lose the fun of clubbing...If you meet a couple in a club then its normal to go and go and have some fun with them after all thats why everyone goes to the Club isnt it?German clubs are different to the one in the US of A..

We are fairly new but have met 8 couples and have played with only one (the first couple we met) the rest have been refusals on behalf of my wife,we did meet one couple who were 100% but turned out the Chemistry between she and I was just too strong and they had their problems as well so we didnt play..

I dont have any problem meeting people and making friends but i dont want a realationship with any other swingers whereas i feel the wife does!!!! but i will take the advice and talk more with her spend yet another sleepless night talking lol!!!done loads of them over the last 6 months!!! :-0

Thanks again people your all great!!!

Steve