DarkBlue,
Something you may want to keep in mind is that some(NOT ALL)women need a connection of some sort. I like the idea of having friends within the lifestyle. I'm not looking for monogomy with one or two couples, and I wouldn't object to a "hey your cute, lets go find a room quick" situation.
But I am guessing by what you said that you are new to the lifestyle. In that case maybe the friend issue is more of a safety one for her. She may grow out of needing friends or you may like having friends.
Right now, I am uncomfortable with just a one night stand with a semi stranger. I am at the point where I need the friendship first. I have made plenty of friendships within the lifestyle. If I have a question or concern I have people who know me in and out (that can be taken two ways, take it which ever way you want) They can give me the answer the I need and one that best suits me. they after all know my fantasys.
I tend to ramble so please try and understand what I am trying to say.
She may need the security of knowing these people. Alot of my insecurties subside once I get to know the person I am dealing with.
For instance, I am easily threated by red heads. I have NO IDEA why. But I meet a wonderful redhead who was a ball of fire, I fell in love with this woman. She is beautiful, incredibly sexual, and funny as all hell. I would not hesitate to play with them now.
Think about, let me know if I made any sence to you at all.
Your friend,
Prettylady
