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Originally Posted by n2ez Here we go again with the high morals swingers, like to hear from the men on this one! lets set the stage first! lets say this liitle cutie wants in to play with you and Wifey, I mean she is a babe type real nice all around, buttttttt oh oh 'MARRIED" and her hubbie doesn't know she is out there looking to swing with you, now from what I read here, you will tell her no way honey! ask your hubbie first.... I just don't think the average guy half of the cpl would throw her out! or without at least some very spirited discussions with his wife! lol
I do find some ads funny to almost always it list "No Married Men" have yet to see one with "No Married Women" this would lead one to think Married Women are exempt from the rule? |
Well a couple of points here, out of order.
The 'no married men' is due to the fact that so many married men are looking to cheat with swingers. I'm sure there are some married women doing the same, but they don't spam your inbox. Also the married cheating women we have run into have all been paired with a married cheating man. The 'we are married but not to each other.'
Now for the main question.
First I know my wifes view on cheating and I know she would never play with anyone cheating period. She hates cheating in all forms and will stop reading a book or watching a movie if the main character is cheating. She would never agree to play with a cheater, ever. So lets assume she doesn't know but I do. Now lets make this other woman a complete hottie, my ideal type of fantasy woman, I would most likely WANT to let her cheat. That being said I know how my wife would react if we played and then found out she was a cheater, and god help me if she found out I knew (heh) so I still wouldn't do it, its not worth it to just get laid.
Now add to this but when people do cheat, they often will tell their spouse when they are upset and trying to get back at them. I really don't want some pissed off husband on my ass.
So no I wouldn't play with a hot cheater. Swinging satisfies at basic instinct to find other sexual outlets, which I think is the root of a lot of cheating. It makes me resistant to 'thinking with my dick.'