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Darkblue · 12-17-2006, 10:37 AM

Sarah
Many thanks for links to the other threads!! they were a great help to me..

I dont have a problem meeting couples first to see if we all fit, its the idea of making them into friends that worrys me,to me friends means emotions and that always end up i being hurt in someway.

I dont want my Wife hurt, We do disagree on this and she wont compromise on this, for her friendship first and thats final,she seems to want friendship,trust (to me these are basics for a realationship) and then well see what happens but i am not into waiting for 6 months to find out if were going to have sex or not!! we met a couple and 3 of us are fine and the Mrs isnt sure and want further meets to see if she likes him or not!!!!!not my idea of swinging by the time we do get a yes or no the spark will have gone out..... no spark no fun.......

At the moment we seem to be going from one problem to the next even though we do talk about everything before hand....

Thanks again Sarah!!your a star

Steve

12-17-2006, 10:37 AM	#3 (permalink)
Darkblue Steve and Susanne Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 229 Location: Germany Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:darkblue	Re: Friendship yes or no! Sarah Many thanks for links to the other threads!! they were a great help to me.. I dont have a problem meeting couples first to see if we all fit, its the idea of making them into friends that worrys me,to me friends means emotions and that always end up i being hurt in someway. I dont want my Wife hurt, We do disagree on this and she wont compromise on this, for her friendship first and thats final,she seems to want friendship,trust (to me these are basics for a realationship) and then well see what happens but i am not into waiting for 6 months to find out if were going to have sex or not!! we met a couple and 3 of us are fine and the Mrs isnt sure and want further meets to see if she likes him or not!!!!!not my idea of swinging by the time we do get a yes or no the spark will have gone out..... no spark no fun....... At the moment we seem to be going from one problem to the next even though we do talk about everything before hand.... Thanks again Sarah!!your a star Steve