 Re: married, but still single
This is a tough question, Jim, and there are no simple answers. Of course, the only real answer would be to work things out with your wife to both resume your sex life together and, perhaps, explore wider possibilities together.
It takes a strong marriage to swing and that is the reason most swingers will not consider "married but single" playmates. There is just too much drama, not to mention a real danger, involved in sneaky sex. With all the married couples who are ready and able to play, why take a chance?
Is there a physical reason your wife can't make love with you? If not, what can you lose by talking in depth with her (even if it requires a marriage conselor)?
Really, you can't solve the problem on your own. Your wife must be involved, otherwise the problem will persist.
Divorce is also a valid option if she refuses to work out marital problems with you.
Mr. Alura
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