Re: What are we doing wrong?
Number one, you are doing nothing wrong, MrsVan. Our experience is similar. We met a wonderful couple at first. Had it now been for them we would have given up on the whole idea. We have met many people since. These more-recent relationships work on all kinds of different levels. Sounds like you have the right outlook and expectation. When we open ourselves, we do become vulnerable. But there is no gain without pain. The rewards, those immediate and those long-term, make the effort worthwhile.
Michael
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