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Originally posted by DragonsLair
Personally, I think it's up to you and your partner to decide if it's alright for you to opt out and just watch if you're not attracted. If it doesn't bother him to play while you watch, and you're comfortable with that, then go for it.
As long as you have good communication between you and he knows why you don't want to participate, I don't see a problem.
DragonsLair
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I think this advice is right on. If everybody is informed and consents, I don't think that it poses an issue at all. Be sure that it is what you want though, and also be sure to discuss it beforehand.
-B