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Originally posted by Ashley
no one has spoken to my question about is it acceptable to opt out for one partner but not the other in a club situation. If I had said "no thanks" could my partner have still enjoyed the woman or would I have pre-empted the experience? Would the other man automatically have objected? As you can see I don't know much about the etiquette of swinging. |
It would have been quite alright for you to decline, as it would have been ok for the others to also decline. Whether your partner would still have been able to share pleasures with the other woman would depend on the dynamic of her relationship with her partner.
Jamie