The Swingers Board - View Single Post - First time last night, now husband is angry and won't talk

flkeyscouple · 12-11-2006, 01:06 PM

I'll agree with the others - this was a bad time to start swinging. That being said, it's happened so now you need to deal with it.

One way to open the discussion without the interrogation is to tell him just what you told us. Or better yet, ask him to read this thread. That will show him that you simply want to talk about it. And that you are worried about his thoughts/needs.

I'm sure your therapist has given you ideas on how to better communicate. Keep that up - communication is the key. Tell him you love him.. tell him that your relationship is the most important.

You'll have a lot to talk about - including the ideas/suggestions you get on this thread.

Good luck.

Sarah

12-11-2006, 01:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
flkeyscouple Sarah&Roger's Female Half Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,160 Location: FL Status: couple-female half Swing Lifestyle Name:floridakeyscouple	Re: First Time Last night help? I'll agree with the others - this was a bad time to start swinging. That being said, it's happened so now you need to deal with it. One way to open the discussion without the interrogation is to tell him just what you told us. Or better yet, ask him to read this thread. That will show him that you simply want to talk about it. And that you are worried about his thoughts/needs. I'm sure your therapist has given you ideas on how to better communicate. Keep that up - communication is the key. Tell him you love him.. tell him that your relationship is the most important. You'll have a lot to talk about - including the ideas/suggestions you get on this thread. Good luck. Sarah