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Originally Posted by Chicup Most people would say this is the exact wrong time to do this.
Most people would be right too.
Very young + unstable relationship + swinging = bad mojo |
I am with Chicup on this one. Your relationship sounds unstable at best. On the verge of breakup at worst. I doubt now is the time to introduce other people into your relationship. Couples who swing and do so successfully with no drama are those that are stable, loving, secure, and trusting. They also have a level of communication that skyrockets past what most of us grew up seeing from our own parents and role models. I think the best thing for you two is to continue counseling, put swinging on hold, and get your relationship on the right track before approaching. Most swingers would avoid couples who have some other issues to deal with. I know I would.