The Swingers Board - View Single Post - First time last night, now husband is angry and won't talk

Bx_mistress · 12-11-2006, 11:44 AM

My husband I have been married for 2 years on December 21st and have been together mostly exclusively for the past 6. Yes quite a hard thing to do since we met in HS when I was 15. We are still very young. Im 22 and he is 23. We have both had seperate sexual encounters through our relationship during roughtimes of seperation. We have been very interested in getting involved in the swinging lifestyle. Which we put off because of problems in our relationship. We have been going to counseling and are on a steady 3 steps fowards three steps back routine. But we are getting somewhere.

Most people would say this is the exact wrong time to do this. But the opportunity arose last night and we all acted on it. It was amazing although crazy because it was a co-worker of his that I know he has been very friendly with.

But this morning he was in such a bad mood. Im wondering if he has some crazy thoughts going on? I need advice on how to communicate with him. What questions can I ask without seeming like I am interrogating him.

I was very comfortable with the whole situation. He never penetrated her so it was mostly an all out oral sex kinda night. The only thing I wasn't comfortable with was havign her sleep in our bed. But that will be a part of our discussion. Since we never got to really talk and set down the rules. I would really liek to continue doing this.

12-11-2006, 11:44 AM	#1 (permalink)
Bx_mistress Registered Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Kansas Status: married couple	First time last night, now husband is angry and won't talk My husband I have been married for 2 years on December 21st and have been together mostly exclusively for the past 6. Yes quite a hard thing to do since we met in HS when I was 15. We are still very young. Im 22 and he is 23. We have both had seperate sexual encounters through our relationship during roughtimes of seperation. We have been very interested in getting involved in the swinging lifestyle. Which we put off because of problems in our relationship. We have been going to counseling and are on a steady 3 steps fowards three steps back routine. But we are getting somewhere. Most people would say this is the exact wrong time to do this. But the opportunity arose last night and we all acted on it. It was amazing although crazy because it was a co-worker of his that I know he has been very friendly with. But this morning he was in such a bad mood. Im wondering if he has some crazy thoughts going on? I need advice on how to communicate with him. What questions can I ask without seeming like I am interrogating him. I was very comfortable with the whole situation. He never penetrated her so it was mostly an all out oral sex kinda night. The only thing I wasn't comfortable with was havign her sleep in our bed. But that will be a part of our discussion. Since we never got to really talk and set down the rules. I would really liek to continue doing this.