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Originally Posted by Randies' Why do you think that this woman needs to be left in the dark and thought badly of? If you know then she should know. I firmly believe that I would know if Mr. Randies' was doing the cheating thing, so this wife may also know but if she doesn't then she should!! Find a way to get the information to her and stay safe yourself. She and you both need to get away from that man/dog/pig/??. |
It is a misconception that telling the wife would be going her good.
People have very weird relationships with each other. I once knew a couple and knew the man was cheating. In fact, he wasn't even that discreet about it -- so other people knew it too. I remember someone asking, "why doesn't someone say something to the wife?" and a friend of hers said, "she really doesn't want to know." The wife was HAPPY with the arrangement -- she decided living as roommates was better than husband and wife. Her requirement was that she didn't want it thrown in her face (which it wasn't), and she didn't want to have to make a life-altering decision (like, "damn -- now that I KNOW for sure, do I stay or do I go?).
Women are NOT stupid. If Mr. Fun were cheating, I'd know it in a new york minute. The question would then become, what do I DO with that information?
NOW -- to the OP -- move away from this guy. He's no good. And what goes around, comes around. Trust me -- he'll get his, in some way, sooner than later. Karma is a funny thing.