Your situation is much like ours. I am attracted to a wide variety of ladies. I hate to describe my wife a being picky because I know her not to be as such. It is just easier for anybody to judge upon looks on a first encounter basis. My now wife would not have picked me out of the crowd if first appearance was not in the equation. Until you really get to know the personality apect, it is tough to make those decisions. I get wrapped up in the personality over looks.
We are together. Therefore, we play together. That is final and one of our rules. If she says no, I respect it.
The cool thing about swinging is all the variety of couples we have met to this date. If we don't swing or get the opportunity to do so with a couple or a couple of couples, atleast we had met someone new and had great conversations.
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