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J & K · 02-18-2003, 01:59 PM

We have the same problem which keeps us from having a full swap let along play time with anybody.

We find attractive ladies of the cpl who want to play with me or both of us. Then we see the men and my wife goes, "No"--not attractive. So we agree not to full/soft swap unless we both are attractive to them which means we have a long wait from what we see out there, but it is mostly the men that don't attract my wife. My wife "K" is a very pretty lady and I know she wants an attractive man to play with. It seems the majority of the women take care of their looks and body, but most of the men seem to let it all lose with body weight or gromming habits. Ah---did I open a can of worms on this part I bet. Sorry.

At this rate we aren't going to have any luck, but we already made an commitment to one other cpl (friends for 7 months) for soft swing now, but they are attractive to us in personality and not so much in looks (male half). So we have talked together and agreed for the team to keep our friendship---we never know---we might like it at the time.

02-18-2003, 01:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
J & K Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 192 Location: Middle GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OKC_CPL	Pretty Lady-non attractive men We have the same problem which keeps us from having a full swap let along play time with anybody. We find attractive ladies of the cpl who want to play with me or both of us. Then we see the men and my wife goes, "No"--not attractive. So we agree not to full/soft swap unless we both are attractive to them which means we have a long wait from what we see out there, but it is mostly the men that don't attract my wife. My wife "K" is a very pretty lady and I know she wants an attractive man to play with. It seems the majority of the women take care of their looks and body, but most of the men seem to let it all lose with body weight or gromming habits. Ah---did I open a can of worms on this part I bet. Sorry. At this rate we aren't going to have any luck, but we already made an commitment to one other cpl (friends for 7 months) for soft swing now, but they are attractive to us in personality and not so much in looks (male half). So we have talked together and agreed for the team to keep our friendship---we never know---we might like it at the time.