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starla · 12-09-2006, 03:54 PM

I am new to this board and new to the lifestyle. So far I like it, but I am still learing "the rules". I have a "what should I do question" and would love some advice from people who have been living this lifestyle.
I have been dating a guy for about a year now. He introduced me to the lifestyle a few months ago. He has been a member of a swingers club for many years and I have joined the same club. I found out that he is married and has been for 16yrs. When I asked him about it, he said he is seperated and had been for the last 5 yrs. I have recently found out that he is lying and is with his wife in every way.
Here is my question: Do I tell his wife or just walk away? I believe that what happens at the club stays there, but I also blieve in honesty and think she has a right to know. What would you do???

12-09-2006, 03:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
starla Registered User Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Washington Status: S/F	Found out my boyfriend is married I am new to this board and new to the lifestyle. So far I like it, but I am still learing "the rules". I have a "what should I do question" and would love some advice from people who have been living this lifestyle. I have been dating a guy for about a year now. He introduced me to the lifestyle a few months ago. He has been a member of a swingers club for many years and I have joined the same club. I found out that he is married and has been for 16yrs. When I asked him about it, he said he is seperated and had been for the last 5 yrs. I have recently found out that he is lying and is with his wife in every way. Here is my question: Do I tell his wife or just walk away? I believe that what happens at the club stays there, but I also blieve in honesty and think she has a right to know. What would you do???