Re: Dont Want to Stop Wanting To
Congratulations for bringing her to this thread. I know it didn't work as you had hoped, but maybe time will tell. She may take the website information and some time when you aren't around she'll take some time to read through these threads. Once she does that, she'll find that true lifestyle couples are those that respect each other above all else, have very strong marriages, have a great sex life at home, love each other more than life, and have a great deal of communication.
You still need to be patient. I presume that your marriage is the most important part of this story. If so, your patience is needed. You need to continue your own relationship, love your wife, communicate with her - not necessarily about swinging, and let her know that she is the most important thing in your life.
And stay patient and loving. Things could come around to your way of thinking. COULD... no guarantee. You will need to decide what is the most important priority - swinging, or your marriage. I hope your answer will be your marriage. If it's not, then your marriage isn't strong enough to start swinging.
Sarah
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