You're right.. Bringing it up at all.. I think she thinks I am trying to argue for it again, which I admit I did really try hard to convince her. The problem is a day doesnt go by that I don't think about it, it's very hard for me.
Her reasons for not wanting to do it has been mainly "I don't wan't to, you can't force me to, I don't have to explain to you why I don't want to". Also at other times she has expressed concern about her being nervous of how she looks to other people, but I don't see why that has to be a show stopper. I find her very attractive, certainly my boner agrees with this!
I cannot see why there isn't people out there who would find her as attractive as I do (infact she is Very beautiful), and who would be much more respectful to us and our relationship.