How long ago did she put her foot down?
I know I've gone through spells where I just didn't feel like "pursing" couples or playing with anyone else but Mr. Fun. I've never been angry over it nor has any swinging topics ever caused a fight (although as I type this, I do recall a heated discussion once), but I have backed off.
It sounds like all of this is very fresh. Give her TIME (and I'm not talking a few days or weeks -- let several, maybe even six months pass) before you bring it up again. Time does heal wounds and makes the bad things in life not seem so bad.
Good luck! Don't mistake the comments here ... you just need a little patience