 Re: Dont Want to Stop Wanting To
You need to talk to your wife. Communication in anything is key. Explain to her that you understand her need to quit, but you still want to. DO NOT try to talk her back into it. Simply explain that you have feelings that leave you wanting to continue, but you respect her and her decision. Ask her to understand your feelings and that it might take a small amount of time for you to just not think about it anymore.
If she is quitting only because of the other couple being pushy, then you can talk to her about how not all couples are like that. But do not approach her in such a way that you are trying to talk her into swinging again. Simply explain to her that you wanted her to know, regardless of her decision, not everyone is like that. Maybe over time she will rethink her position.
But the bottom line is when one says NO it means NO. So if she is adamant about stopping, then thats what you do. You love your wife and only want her happy. So stopping is gonna have to be the thing to do if this is what she wants.
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