The Swingers Board - View Single Post - The female of the other couple may have issues

aahours1 · 12-05-2006, 11:15 AM

No you do not have a problem. Like "Just askJulie" said. I also believe that the hubby was forcing her into it. She did not respond to you, what so ever, which makes me believe it was ALL her Husbands idea. She was just there for the ride, no pun intended. She is having issues and especially when she saw her husband doing your wife, it made her come to reality. You and the other male need to sit down over drinks or a light lunch, by yourselves, and discuss the matter about her. Asking him, WHOSE IDEA WAS IT TO START SWINGING and wanting to SWAP? Then take it from there and see if he was doing it for himself and doing the pushing to get her to go along with it. But that maybe touchy, so take it careful and slow.

12-05-2006, 11:15 AM	#14 (permalink)
aahours1 Club Host Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 66 Location: Michigan Status: Couple M-F Swing Lifestyle Name:aahours1	Re: Are we being used??? do we move on??? No you do not have a problem. Like "Just askJulie" said. I also believe that the hubby was forcing her into it. She did not respond to you, what so ever, which makes me believe it was ALL her Husbands idea. She was just there for the ride, no pun intended. She is having issues and especially when she saw her husband doing your wife, it made her come to reality. You and the other male need to sit down over drinks or a light lunch, by yourselves, and discuss the matter about her. Asking him, WHOSE IDEA WAS IT TO START SWINGING and wanting to SWAP? Then take it from there and see if he was doing it for himself and doing the pushing to get her to go along with it. But that maybe touchy, so take it careful and slow.