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Old 12-05-2006, 03:10 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by texascouple_200
My husband and I have been in the lifstyle for about 2 years and during this time he's has played alone several times in fact 9 times to be exact. One of the women he played with fell in love with him we have since ended that relationship.I have never played with another man. I have only been in 3 somes with him and other women. I don't understand why my Husband get's upset that another man would want to be with me.. I have no issue with him playing alone and I have no desire to be with another man and told my husband so. So why does it bother him to think that I might be with another man? Thanks for your imput...
Because he is insecure and assumes that some day you might want to make your relationship 'even' and have other men. You say you don't want to play with other men, and for you that may be true, but he sees it from his perspective and his perspective is there is no way he would let you play with a man and would be really pissed off if you told him he couldn't play with other women while you played with your men.

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