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Old 12-02-2006, 10:40 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: How open about swinging are you?

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Originally Posted by DGrey
A few of our vanilla friends know. If people were to ever ask, we wouldn't lie to them about it.

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We have actually discussed the exact opposite of this and if we are ever directly asked about it by a traditional friend or family member just lying our butts off. We figure no matter how bad we get caught with our hands in the cookie jar if we just deny everything no matter what evidense we are confronted with people will fall in to two main catagories. The first catagory would be the people that may be titillated by what we would have to say and once they realized they weren't going to get any juicy details or answers they would just let it go.

And the other catagory would be people that would have an actual problem with it in which case they would want to believe it was not true and would want to hear a denial in the first place.

Now I realize that niether group may believe us at all and would still think whatever it is that they are going to think but that would go back to my first post in that it is a private matter to begin with and none of their buisiness.
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