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Originally Posted by titanicmale I thought it ended last week. I have not contacted the other couple. They (both) have contacted my wife, but not me, as I just found out.
I told my wife when I found out they were still talking that it needed to stop immediately. She controls her actions. If he calls my wife, she doesn't have to talk to him. I know this is a problem between my wife and me. I value the opinions given and agree. Do you really think I need to talk to him after I have told my wife that the relationship needs to end?
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YES -- talk to him! You're right; ultimately, your wife is responsible for her own actions, but this couples needs to hear from YOU that you would appreciate their not contacting her anymore, and why. If they're your typical swinging couple, they will not be interested in any drama, and this situation SMELLS of drama getting ready to happen. They will not want any part of it; they may even be dismayed to learn of her feelings for him. You'll be doing them a big favor.
Good luck. I wish you guys my very best.