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titanicmale · 12-01-2006, 09:37 AM

Long time reader. Married about 10 years, in the lifestyle a few years. Started with a MFM, and he tried to steal her away and she almost left. We decided to stick with couples and it is happening again. We went from her saying she is totally in love with me, for the first time can see us getting old together, and never happier to a very bad place all within a week. I told her we can't fix us if she continues to talk with him. What do you think and what do the following really mean:
1. "It's not that I don't love you."
2. "I love you, but I'm not sure I'm in love with you."
3. "He and I have a connection."
4. She doesn't want to give up his "friendship".

12-01-2006, 09:37 AM	#1 (permalink)
titanicmale Registered Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 9 Location: abyss Status: m.male	Not sure what she means? Is she cheating with him? Long time reader. Married about 10 years, in the lifestyle a few years. Started with a MFM, and he tried to steal her away and she almost left. We decided to stick with couples and it is happening again. We went from her saying she is totally in love with me, for the first time can see us getting old together, and never happier to a very bad place all within a week. I told her we can't fix us if she continues to talk with him. What do you think and what do the following really mean: 1. "It's not that I don't love you." 2. "I love you, but I'm not sure I'm in love with you." 3. "He and I have a connection." 4. She doesn't want to give up his "friendship".